tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25882546.post1180047126099670748..comments2023-10-11T03:48:57.606-04:00Comments on Head For the Red: Back to Business... Part IIRufus Opushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10806987441760167537noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25882546.post-36238395356238591672012-08-24T08:19:16.377-04:002012-08-24T08:19:16.377-04:00I'm familiar with the feeling: I kept saying I...I'm familiar with the feeling: I kept saying I'd leave, but then The Ex actually did. In my case, I suppose that even though my stress load is down 120%, I'm pissed because I'd have been The Bad Guy for leaving him...and now somehow, I'm *still* The Bad Guy even though I didn't end it.<br /><br />Then I think of how I'm free to go where and do as I wish, for the first time in years, and I remember that I can either think of that occasional ache in my chest as heartbreak or growing pains. And then I tell myself to run my life "like a boss" (grins).The ocelothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08158052946010994691noreply@blogger.com